Friendship

Friendship…how to define this????

Although one of the most simplest and beautiful relationship to experience...but yet it is one of the most difficult ones to describe.

I have for long tried to define it....but every time I do ...it not only gets complicated to put together its various facets but...presents itself with an altogether new dimension. Finally...I have realised that I will never be able to put it in words and have hence finally resorted to understanding it in terms of my experiences and escapades. They include some of the funniest incidents as well as some very emotional ones.

 FOR me FRIENDSHIP is when

FRIENDSHIP is when you don’t shy away from doing something stupid because you know that someone will always be there to stand beside you till the end and bail you out.

FRIENDSHIP is when you can confess to a third person about your crush.
 

FRIENDSHIP is when you can bank on someone to hear your side of the story patiently and believe it even if the whole world is going against you.

FRIENDSHIP is when you can talk absolute nonsense with each other and still pretend to be intellectual waiting for the other one to burst into laughter.

FRIENDSHIP is when you can trust your personal diary with someone knowing that they will never peek inside nor will allow anyone else to.

FRIENDSHIP is when your friend plays a prank on you and once you figure out that it was him..you blurt out...teri..@$@$@..teri....$@%%.But eventually when your friend who is still laughing comes and give you a hug..you suddenly feel reassured and start to feel how amusing  the complete episode really was. :)

FRIENDSHIP is when you don’t feel like having fun yourselves..just because your friend had a bad day.

FRIENDSHIP is when you look at a girl passing by and looking at each other one says “dude..she is smoking hot” and the other one replies “I know..bhabhi hai teri..” then the first one responds “in your dreams..yes” ;)

FRIENDSHIP In one of my friend’s words is when a guy becomes brother to a girl so that he ca convince her to fall for you. 

FRIENDSHIP is when you can talk to your friends the whole night on random trivial topics and still in the morning feel that you have done something productive....even though you have a pending assignment to submit..that day.

FRIENDSHIP is when you can call each other with dumb nick names without the other person caring about it.

FRIENDSHIP is when you are on top of the world and everyone is praising you. Your friend gives you a hug and whisper in your ears “congrats dost!!..but stay grounded...the challenge starts now..”

FRIENDSHIP is when you can verbally abuse your friend for no obvious reason and then end up laughing like fools.

FRIENDSHIP is when your friend picks an unnecessary fight and you put your toe in to support him, only to get punched in the face yourself. And when the fight is over you, yourselves kick his ass like the other person would not have. :D

FRIENDSHIP is when someone accepts you irrespective of your flaws or the mistakes that you have made.

FRIENDSHIP is when you have a fight amongst yourselves and decide not to talk to each other anymore only to realize after 2 days that there is a huge void in you life and you really can’t do without each other.

FRIENDSHIP is when your friend becomes your biggest critic in case you go wrong.

This is the best way that I could have described it....It is very randomly put and that is actually the best thing about friendship, It strikes a chord unawares and before you come to realize it, the stranger has already become a part of your life. Each friendship bond is its own symphony, its own lyrics, its own rhythm, its own story quite different from each other yet all share the same essence of love, trust, fun, oneness and care for your friend.

The thing about friendship is that it is simple, demands no expectations from the other person, it is not a give and take relationship and is selfless. A brief encounter of 15 minutes is all you need to be friends with someone. Isn’t it just awesome how can strangers become so close and all important in one’s life so quickly??

The one thing that I very confidently feel that my school, my hostel and my college have given me is my friends and I will always be grateful for that if not anything else. 

I have always believed that friendship is a luxury, something so important that one cannot afford to loose at any cost. In time I have also come to realize that it should not betaken for granted, it need to be nurtured and treasured.

I have experienced that the friends with whom I have had fights are amongst my more close friends. May be fighting and getting back together is a testimony to the fact that our friendship has stood the test of time and emerged strong against adverse circumstances. May be that’s the reason it is easiest to say sorry to a friend than to anyone else in the world and even easier to forgive.(This doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to pick a fight in order to be good friends :D)

Moreover there have been instances where I have crossed people in my day to day life and never tried to interact with them for one reason or other ..but just like some eternal conspiracy.. a small opportunity...a small change...a small click...suddenly changes several definitions....you come to realize  how amazing and wonderful they are and how much you have missed by not being friends with them before. Friendship is undoubtedly a wonderful gift of god, give a chance to friendship..give a chance to yourself...give a chance to life.

I dedicate this post to all my friends..and pray to god that I have the luxury of their company till the end of my life.